Editor: Liu Yong, a writer and painter, has published two new books, "Little Sha Wan Meets Liu Yong" and "Dad Will Not Cry" this year (2020). One is a short story about life, behind it is his open-minded view of the world, and the other is about his daughter's marriage and her mood in her mature years. In his seventies, he is in a state of breath every day. He also had lumbar surgery last year, but looking at life and death, family and adversity in life, he is still in a whim-like fun.

I have lived for most of my life. Is there any story that you want to tell me repeatedly to young children?

Liu Yong's books, such as "Beyond Yourself" and "I'm Not Teaching You" series, in his youth in grades 5 and 6, pointed out different thinking directions in life with a short story. At the age of 71 this year (2020), he has collected short stories about life written in the past 50 years, accompanied by newly painted ink illustrations, and invited his son Liu Yifan to translate them (who is a supervisor), and joined forces to launch "Little Shalang Meets Liu Yong".

Little Sha Tiao is like you and me in the world. Once again, he complained that the fallen leaves in the courtyard were swept and came again, and it felt like a trauma; my master thought this metaphor was very good:

"If you suffer, swept away! If you suffer, swept away again, swep away again!"

"Today, swep away today; tomorrow, swep away tomorrow. Don't worry about not falling down because you suffer, swep away again."

Today is difficult today, and don't worry about the future. This kind of open-minded view of the world is actually very rude.

As he often said, "Parents who call their children every day are actually very frustrating, and their moods are getting up and down. As soon as the child says what, the parents can't sleep, and they rush to call again the next day. As a result, the child said it was okay, but yesterday was just not happy. You were so worried, he was like a lie." After saying that, Liu Yong immediately admitted that he was also a parent who missed his children, "I'm so fond of it!" He laughed.

Most of the time he is separated from his child, and he emails his daughter every day. He just scratched his daughter the day before his visit. He just wanted to exercise more and pay attention to his body. "It is hard to meditate on children, but it is also a kind of happiness. Just like, if you don't feel bad, you won't enjoy the taste of catching things." This is the nature of parents, but you must also learn to let go, "Put it and then relax, hold it and then relax, and life will be rewarded!"

While the slew of love, love is accumulated into a love network in your life.

The parents who were overly worried would become the daughter's thorny stone

Last year, my daughter got married, Liu Yong was worried that she would get old, but she didn't expect that the wedding would be laughed to the end, and his daughter's happiness infected him, but Liu Yong knew that the child would be let go when he grew up.

He once said that from the moment everyone is born, it is no longer the private property of their parents, but independent individuals. Step by step towards the outside world is a necessity of life. "When they get married, it is their parents who complete their mission and let the happy bird fly!" Just like the white fluff of a dandelion, blowing away with the slight wind, what parents can do is to wish their children a safe journey.

Although he was thinking, he remembered not to slander his children's lives. When his son Liu Qi got married, he was not just his own child, but also someone else's husband and father. He met Shuzi and Sun Girls. Even if his ancestors were close, they were just sticky.

Once again, Xuezi was not serious about the direct course and was beaten by her mother. When she couldn't bear to see Xuezi being beaten, she said, "It's hard to escape", and then slipped back to the painting room to show respect for her daughter-in-law's education.

Not only does not interfere in life, but also the innovation of women in their jobs, Liu Yong is too unwilling to give advice now.

This happened: Liu Ying participated in the Chinese program "I am an actor" in 2015. Liu Yong thought before that the competition was fierce, and the production units might have some "special considerations". He was worried that it was not something his son could control. Unexpectedly, Liu Ying still made up his mind and even won the first place. Later, Liu Yong reflected on himself: "If this kid hadn't been there and I was talking less, he would have more potential." Then he wrote on his face: "A parents who are overly worried about not only do not help, but may also become stools."

Being sick is like a pause in life. There is also enjoyment in the blank space.

When Liu Yong said, he was full of enthusiasm and bright eyes. It is hard to imagine that he has always been a person with a big and small illness. He suffered from lung disease since he was a child, vomited blood without any pretexts and took a year off in high school, and had severe asthma, and had heart problems, which were always hypoxia and esophageal countercurrent. As long as he did not take medicine for a day, the sour water could rush to his throat.

Last year, he had a lumbar surgery, cut a 10-centimeter hole in his back and injected 4 tarts. "I recently discovered that I have two tendons in my brain!" He went to the hospital for magnetic resonance imaging and found that the brain had no blood flowing Willy's ring at all. The doctor said this was brain incomplete development.

Everyone has some illness after age. Liu Yong, who has been with the disease for many years, believes that if he is not ill and unconscious, getting sick is not a bad thing, but can actually be a fulfilling person. Disease is like the pause key of life, which gives you more time to breathe. "It's like walking on the stage, step by step, encountering a flat ground, and getting sick is a flat ground for you to take a breath."

During the year of high school break, Liu Yong read the books he loved and painted the paintings he thought about, began to be interested in literature and poems, and developed his own painting style, which changed his life. During the recovery period of lumbar surgery last year, since I could not draw a large lumbar painting, I sat on a chair to carve a seal, and turned a small path from the original daily turntable, and enjoyed myself in the seemingly blank stage..

"I feel so happy when I get sick when I lose my breath and my waist doesn't hurt. It has become your friend and is a part of your life, so I am very grateful to live to this day."

The attitude of dying life is to leave at any time and never stop.

The medicine jar actually lived to the age of seventy. Even Liu Yong himself thought it was a miracle, so he looked down on life and death. "I always think of death, and my life attitude is to leave at any moment."

He believed that the highest state of leaving the world is "peaceful rebirth", that is, the moment he left, his heart was not repelled. Before living, I finished what I wanted to say, arranged what I wanted to explain, and all the things I owe were compensated, and all the regrets were detrimental.

People cannot know when they will leave, so they must prepare in advance during the Chinese New Year. "When you feel at ease, less linger, and less worry, you will naturally have positive energy and will easily become healthy and prosperous." Liu Yong made arrangements very early. In addition to collecting, he handed over all the insurance lists he had given to his son two days before visiting.

Many people realize that life is in the middle age. Liu Yongyan understands that life is unpredictable when he is very young.

3rd-year-old left his biological parents, his 6th-year-old father passed away due to lung disease, and his 9th-year-old father died of dysfunction of the kidney cancer. He caught fire at his 13th-year-old home for a night. He suddenly vomited blood and went to school at the age of 16. The 19-year-old mother and son were forced to move to the Zhaozhangjian District. He was 23 years old and had a military service and repeated examination. The doctor confirmed that he did not need to be a soldier, and at the same time declared that he would not live long. At that moment, Liu Yong was in the five thunders, "I told myself that people should not die for a day."

Life is not dull and not spend half a day

From then on, he cherishes every day of life, never wastes time, and rarely gets remuneration. "If you understand that one day you will leave this world, we will not be confused and confused today, I will not spend half a day!"

"I saw a sentence before, which gave me great vigilance--when I get older, I lose the ability to pursue excellence." Liu Yong refused this routine, and he insisted on constantly improving.

When my daughter was reciting her books, she returned to the math exam with a computer. Liu Yong said that we used to calculate the exam with our hands before, but my daughter couldn't help but say, "I will go to Mars in the future!" As if she wanted to push the old man far behind her brain. But in fact, Liu Yong pursues excellence and learns new things, and he also has the energy to go on Mars, as if he wants to be like the big bird in "Xiaolong" of Zhuangzi, flying all the way up!

Last year, he completed the largest mountain landscape of this painting "Imitation of Fan Wild Snow Scenery with Forests", which was as high as 2 meters and as wide as 3 meters. He also imitated Fan Wild's "Traveling on the Mountains", which carefully restored the mountain trees and rock patterns in the painting. Recently, I have fallen in love with the flowers of my childhood, including Ma Dan, Hollyhock, Hibiscus……… and I am also close to the memories of my childhood.

A friend once encouraged him to train his core muscles more, which would help improve lumbar spondylosis, but for Liu Yong, excellence in artistic performance is more important! How many articles can I write and how many articles can I write in just one hour of fitness? It is very important to him to explore the field of creation.

When coexisting with illness and pain, I admire the beauty of this world.

talked with Liu Yong. His eyes attracted our attention than silver white hair, as if he was curious about the world like a child! As a spiritual teacher in grade 5 or 6, how will we point out a new direction for the second half of our life?

Liu Yong did not answer directly, but instead said that the fire broke out at home: After the fire broke out, he looked at the dark and pressured scenery, which reminded him of the paintings of Japanese Ukiyo E, Oukagawa, where Japanese houses stood in the dark blue night world, with a singular and poetic style. The whole piece of land was so burnt that the house was not burned, only the soil was left.

When it was raining on the wall, the upper part was ticking and the lower part was ticking. He recited Li Qingzhao's "Slow Sound": The sycamore tree is raining even more, and it is ticking. It is ticking when it is dusk.

When he arrived at the sunny beach, he saw the sky Xingzi, and he thought of the Greek drama again, and felt that it was romantic and beautiful. The burnt smell of the burnt pillars around it was mixed with the fragrance of mandoro at home. "I suddenly felt like I was above the hall, so beautiful!"

"Maybe I am a slut, and I don't feel despised when I encounter something very despised." He said with a smile. For him, it is more important to spend time feeling the situation, actually living and feeling the world well.

Even Liu Yong, who is dependent on illness every day, still loves traveling deeply. He usually practices on the table every day, writes at his desk, and writes diligently. "If you have a little bit of energy, you will appreciate the beauty of this world."

is as beautiful as him, and then reiterates: "Is it hard to live just to see if the sun comes out tomorrow morning? I think it's more painful."

Original text: I was said to have lived for a while by a doctor at the age of 23! Liu Yong, 71 years old: If you have a little bit of enthusiasm, you will appreciate the world's beauty