It is not easy to raise the next generation. Many older people have a deep-rooted concept of "raising and preventing old age" in their minds. They will give birth to many children to pull them up and grow up. When they get old, they will ask their children to grow up for themselves. At first glance, there is no problem, but a netizen said that he was born in a family with poor conditions. He often couldn't eat three meals since he was a child and had no money to read books. He went to work to earn living expenses when he was young. When he grew up, his parents asked him to pay half of his salary as a filial piety fee on the grounds that he said, "I didn't ask you to give birth to me!" In modern times, people who have been using old-age concepts for many years do not think that they should not have children if they have no money, and do not use old-age concepts to conquer the next generation to morally defeat the next generation. Do you think you are protecting your old age? Yuanqi.com asked everyone's opinions on the face fans' page, which caused a large number of netizens to reply.

Do you think you are protecting your old age?

The concept of "raising and protecting old age" in my heart is deeply rooted. Although some elders have worked hard to support their children after giving birth, they have not made plans for their elders and kept their elders all on their children. However, if they unfortunately meet unfilial sons, they may be "living and levied by their elders" if they fail to meet an unfilial son. Regarding this, many netizens said that they should not have children if they have no money. In addition to protecting foreigners, the growth also needs to make more plans for their own old age.

Some netizens oppose the protection of old age. "Taiwan's salary is so low. If you get married and have another child, how can you pay filial piety and pay for it if you have a heavy burden!", "Old people have children just to prevent old age", "If you are good at studying, forget it, don't create trouble, it will also make the next generation suffer", "Now the society has low wages, you are almost dying, helpless ", "It's hard to hear, but it's just a matter of fact. Why are there many people who choose not to have children now? Because choosing to have children is the responsibility and obligation of parents who know that they are not responsible and obligations of their parents. There are also many people who don't use filial piety to squeeze the next generation. Parents can choose whether to have children, but children have no way to choose their parents."

Some netizens also support nursing and preventing old age. "People need to be grateful to have blessings", "Is there any money to have money? Since we came to this family, our parents have worked hard to raise us, and we should learn to be grateful when we grow up! We also report our parents' kindness" and "In the past, no matter how hard or tired my parents were, they were thinking about their daughters. They nowadays, young people, having a big meal, having dinner with friends, watching movies, and having a better phone than the other, eating, drinking and having fun, isn't this money? As soon as they say, they want to support their parents, It’s good to be a little bitches, think about the difficulty of parents,” “Parents have no merit and hardship, and be grateful to themselves, so they don’t complain about how much they can pay for them. That’s the ranking of children!”, “Isn’t the family a wrong thing for parents? No parent is willing to make their children unable to eat!”, “Being grateful, you must be a grateful heart”, “Parents give birth to you to see the beauty of the world.”

A netizen said that having children without money is a level copy. "If you don't have money, you really don't have children. Raising children is not that simple." "Don't let the previous generation of wealth-level reproduction to the next generation", "Don't let people really not have children! Children are not your extension, nor are they old machines. They should have a starting line that should at least not drag down their own strength", "You have been very hard, don't let the children suffer together when you give birth, otherwise you will ask the children to suffer together, and the children will also blame you for bringing them to this world to endure hardships", "People with weak economic abilities avoid creating burdens, and economic abilities The wealthy may wish to increase their income and report to the country, "The family still keeps giving birth, and only after giving birth will come. Say that children can bring money, but the detriment will be dragged away. When the child is young, the hardship is the future of the child, and the way to eat is always the bottom." "I really don't have money and those who value boys and girls. I am the type of victim. Parents only consider their selfishness and have to have sons, and daughters only give food and sleep and have to pay for their growth. Don't commit sins." "Although it's not absolutely right, the proportion of children who use their lives to cure their childhood is much higher than that of children with money."

Make 6-point plans for your retirement life in advance

Retirement planning is an important life topic. Regardless of whether you agree with the concept of "raising and preventing old age", the following are some suggestions that can help individuals plan their retirement life in advance and reduce their burden on their children:

1. Personal financial planning: Start saving and investment early to establish a retirement fund. This can include investing in personal retirement accounts, stocks, bonds, real estate, etc. Ask professional financial consultants to ensure that your financial plan meets your life goals.

2. Appropriate risk management: Buy appropriate insurance, including health insurance, human insurance and medical insurance to reduce the burden of medical expenses and long-term care.

3. Cost of Living Control: Maintain a lifestyle in the family, control life sales, and adapt to your own financial ability, which will help accumulate more savings.

4. Planning for retirement life: Imagine life after retirement, including leisure activities, travel, social life, etc. List your retirement expenses in advance and make corresponding savings.

5. Understand the Social Security Network: Study the country's pension system, social benefits and other available resources to ensure you make the most of these opportunities.

6. Communication and Family Commons: If you have children, discuss your retirement plan with them early to ensure that family members have a common understanding of each other's expectations.

Remind you that you must never forget to include "medical fees" when you are in retirement so that you will not be able to pay when you are old and unfortunately get sick.. Whether you agree with the concept of "raising and protecting old age", you should plan your retirement wisely to reduce financial risks and ensure your economic stability. This will also help reduce the burden on your children and enable them to pursue their life goals more.