My mother-in-law asked her to "serve family rules" during her wedding week. She collapsed: I m responsible for the family affairs?

Health 8:40am, 10 August 2025 105

Every family has a difficult life, especially if they live in their parents-in-law's house after marriage, they may have different habits and will be difficult to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. A newlywed wife recently said that her mother-in-law believed that "doing housework is the responsibility of her daughter-in-law", so she asked her to take care of "washing dishes, washing clothes, mopping the floor, buying vegetables, and cooking the whole family meals". After reading it, netizens suggested "ask her husband to discuss it first. If you can't move out, go and divorce."

A newlywed wife posted a message in the "Anonymous Commune" saying, "Who is responsible for doing housework?" She pointed out that just one week after her husband went to work in the morning, her mother-in-law called her up and told her that the "family rules" of her husband's family were "all family affairs are responsible by her daughter-in-law." Whether it is washing dishes, laundry, sweeping the floor, mopping the floor, or buying vegetables and cooking, the daughter-in-law must be responsible for all three meals. Her father-in-law also echoed, "Don't think that if you come back from abroad, you don't have to do housework." Afterwards, the former PO said, "I didn't know these rules before marriage, and my husband didn't mention them to me." She collapsed and pointed out that "it's not that I don't do it, but that I think I need to separate cooperation."

{After the article was exposed, it attracted a hot message from netizens. Some people suggested that she "please ask her husband to communicate with her mother-in-law. Family matters are not just about her wife, but should be done together by the couple." Some netizens also believed that "moving out directly is faster. If the husband doesn't want to cooperate and move out of her in-laws' house, then go and divorce." Some netizens also said, "From the view of this mother-in-law, it may be blamed on you if the child cannot give birth to a man," and accused her husband of "I never told you this before marriage, and it is really irresponsible."